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09 de janeiro club rules applyYou wonder why some clubs have such silly uptight rules for their places? All in the name of exclusivity and decorum!! I went into one the other day and there was some issue abt sportshoes though everything was spotless clean- cleaner than some suits i saw on some oldies there!! Then in many such places there is some issue about collars as well!!! And then in some places they dont allow floaters...and it goes on n on..but one wonders the intelligence (or the lack of it) behind such "rules". It seems almost like school. It is not like people are coming in their underwear into the clubs. The members wil staunchly defend their clubs saying that it is only outsiders who complain and that it is a case of sour grapes. The thing is only people who like to lead regimented lives like this will b ok with it. Discipline is ok but when someone starts telling adults what they can wear and what they cannot, it is too much. No person with an iota of self respect will be able to swallow it. The standards of decency needs to be etsbalished by such clubs which believes in their snooty ideals. People may be well dressed but the words out of their mouths is pure filth. Is that acceptable standards of behaviour? A lot of trouble does happen in such "dignified" clubs but they are always kept under wraps- esp the bigger the club, the bigger the cover up. The patrons wont say much cos they have their memberships to defend- a thing that is got after years of waiting (god knows why!). These very people start to think they belong to an exclusive group- to me the group is of spoilt brats. Their noses start to float in air smwhere...to me, they r the reason why a lot of shit still exists. All this represents the shackles that people are okay with and want to bound themselves with. These rules tend to reinforce the archaic and the traditional. The fact that people start to have airs about themselves after membership just shows how insecure these people would have been in the first place! All this just goes to show that things dont change cos people dont want it to change. People always want to have something to show off 'cos they are not comfortable with the kind of persons they are. Their existence tends to depend on their material possessions and not on the personality they nurture. For frankly, with such an attitude, they wont have much of a personality- its all hollow! People who accept it despite not completely in agreement are equally to blame 'cos their silence is considered consent to the system. This is a special problem all around us. People are not strong enough. They let themselves be dictated by some "privileged" club as they have been dictated by traditions and old stupid customs even if they dont make any sense. People like to be bossed around and geting a facile sense of actually being a part of some elite club that makes them consider themselves superhumen, is a high. People constantly like to live in their little cocoons and let their true selves float away. No wonder we hardly ever come across people who are content with who they are and not consider getting "high" the ultimate type of fun- for those who live their true selves, they dont need club rules, they dont need stimulants- life is the biggest stimulant, the real elixir and the only answer. And it takes only one's own self to realize that. |
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